Recommended reading

The Stepfamily Survival Guide - Natalie Nichols Gillespie 

The Smart Stepfamily: Seven Steps to a Healthy Family - Ron L. Deal 

Blended Families: Creating Harmony As You Build a New Home Life - Maxine Marsolini

Other resources/websites
Successful Stepfamilies - www.smartstepfamilies.com

National Stepfamily Resource Center - www.stepfamilies.info

The Stepfamily Foundation - www.stepfamily.org